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Yi Lu, age 41 of Westhampton, passed away on August 4, 2025. Loving son of Yu Lu-Bouvier and John Bouvier. Beloved brother of Jassica Bouvier.
Memorial Services will take place on August 14, from 5:00 – 8:00 PM at Werner-Rothwell Funeral Home, located at 60 Mill Road, Westhampton Beach, NY.
All gifts made in memory of Yi Lu will support the Phillips Family Cancer Center.
If you would like to make a gift in memory of Yi Lu, please use the link below:
For those who prefer to give by check, please make it payable to Southampton Hospital Foundation and note “Yi Lu” in the memo line so we can ensure the donation is directed to the Phillips Family Cancer Center, 240 Meeting House Lane, Southampton NY 11968.
To the living, I am gone,
To the sorrowful, I will never return,
To the angry, I was cheated,
But to the happy, I am at peace,
And to the faithful, I have never left.
I cannot speak, but I can listen,
I cannot be seen, but I can be heard,
So as you stand upon a shore gazing at a beautiful sea,
As you look upon a flower and admire its simplicity,
Remember me.
Remember me in your heart,
Your thoughts, your memories,
Of the times we loved,
The times we cried,
The times we fought,
The times we laughed.
For if you always think of me,
I will never have gone.
-Margaret Mead
To send flowers to the family or plant a tree in memory of Yi Lu, please visit our floral store.
Southampton Hospital Foundation
240 Meeting House Lane, Southampton NY 11968
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